darktable 3.8 flakey, where can I find the last 3.6 for windows?

The bigger issue I think is that your system seems messed up…I find it hard to believe that 3.8 has an issue with nef files unless maybe they are compressed or new and if that was the case 3.6 would not have liked them…I will read your post on git but I don’t think 3.8 is your issue