I don’t think you should abandon LAB tone curve. Some modules work on RGB Channels like demosaicing or white balance.
For other modules like a tone curve LAB mode offers much more editing capabilities than RGB. Just check this comparison of LAB and RGB.
You can reproduce that with the tone curves in darktable. Doing these ‘crazy’ curves in LAB A and B channel don’t mess up your image since they don’t affect the L channel.
RGB channels don’t have this flexibility.
Moreover LAB Color is intended to approximate human vision. Watch the latest video by Aurelien Pierre from 10:15