@PeteJC, good example image for what I’m about to explain, direct sunlight on a few small bits of the scene, but the rest only gets very indirect, dim illumination.
Such scenes present a far wider dynamic range than the camera can pleasingly record. In this scene, you have both blown highlights and the majority in shadow, so something has to give. Some of use say, should have exposed even less to keep the highlights from blowing, and that only pushes the shadows even darker. So, you increase exposure in Rawtherapee, but all that does is to slide the entire blob of data rightward; with that, you can only make one level of light “the middle”, all the others still suffer from their relative distance from that point.
And so some sort of selective compression of the tone range is needed. That’s what a tone curve does, pulls some tone levels up, leaves others alone, maybe even stretch some out from each other. A lot of software just sticks one in the processing chain from the gitgo, giving you a pleasing initial condition, maybe. But that isn’t what your raw data looks like; this is:
I processed your raw with black subtract, white balance, demosaic, and stretched the data to the white point. I also turned off color management, because that introduces a tone curve. The magenta spots are blown highlights; you can see their spikes in the histogram. But the rest of the image is decidedly much darker; this is what the camera recorded.
So, I turned color management back on and applied a tone curve tailored to the specifics of the image:
Oh, and I also adjusted the white point to just obliterate the highlights, as for some reason my highlight reconstruction algorithm didn’t take out all the magenta. Note that I kept the lowest parts of the tone range where the camera originally recorded them, and lifted the rest. This is not a “bright” subject, some of the gloom needs to be retained, IMHO…
The bottom line to all this is that you need to decide what sort of mood the image you captured requires in the rendition. The camera is going to record it linearly, and that may just work without modification - I’ve personally run across maybe two of my images that worked that way. But for the rest, you’ll have to shape the tone range to meet your need.