unfortunately the bugfix for gtk3 issue isn’t yet in the macports gtk3 package so the issue is not fixed within official darktable 4.2 build for osx.
So if you are on ventura the you might use this build with an early gtk patch to cope with that issue. But that patch isn’t identical to the final bugfix, so handle with care since there might be side effects with the gui.
darktable-4.2.0_x86_64.dmg
(this build also contains a couple of RF lensfun data from: Kameratrollet )
if you need a native m1 build, the you might build it yourself following darktable/BUILD-ARM64.txt at master · darktable-org/darktable · GitHub using the early gtk3 patch from macos13: presets menu doesn't get focus for mouse actions · Issue #12727 · darktable-org/darktable · GitHub or be patient until macports is updated 