On the contrary, Lyle, I think your thread perfectly illustrates one of the most frustrating aspects of social life today: constantly having to deal with “know-it-alls.”
Your intention was simply to pay tribute to someone who has just passed away and who had an influence—perhaps on your cinematic culture—who may have brought you a certain kind of joy when you were a child, by nurturing your imagination and taking you on journeys through his films.
And for all that, it ultimately doesn’t matter if that person expressed opinions that may not have aligned with yours, or with those of others.
The simple fact that he was a figure from your childhood, and that he bring back fond memories, should be enough to allow you to pay tribute to him.
But these days, just doing that is enough to bring out the “know-it-alls”, who’ll tell you, “Yeah, but he was a jerk (meaning: he doesn’t agree with me on this or that political issue), so he doesn’t really deserve this tribute. He was a bad person.”
This world has become a painful place.
Do you really think there’s a right way and a wrong way to think, and that it’s necessarily up to you to decide which is right and which is wrong?
Is it really too much to ask to just let Lyle pay his tribute, without telling him he’s wrong to take any interest in his childhood hero just because that guy is anti-LGBTQ?
You have no idea how many of the artists you admire are probably total jerks. You just don’t know it yet because they haven’t said anything. They’re human beings just like everyone else, with opinions that may differ from yours. Does that make them people you should blacklist when you become aware of their opinion ? If you think so, you’re completely off base.
I’ve been doing software development since I was 8 or 9 years old, and I can say I have a pretty good grasp of binary, but seeing the world itself become that binary (everything is either “good” or “bad”) over the past few years saddens me deeply.
It seems like the game today is to put people into categories, so that each category can then wage war against the others (Nazis against far-leftists, men against women, vegetarians against meat-eaters, and so on, the list is infinite). It’s at the level of a elementary school playground—it’s pathetic.
We are witnessing the total disappearance of all nuance and subtlety.
Under the pretext of wanting to be considerate of everyone, some people really become intolerant of any idea that differs from their own way of thinking. They are the real nazis.
Let’s be clear: I have absolutely no sympathy for the political views expressed by Chuck Norris. But I understand that he may have left a lasting impression on a generation of children (my own, in this case, though I wasn’t part of it—I didn’t have a TV and never had the chance to see any of his movies).
Similarly, when I was a young adult, I really liked a French rock band that was somewhat trendy at the time, until the singer killed his girlfriend and served a prison sentence (he’s now blacklisted from all festivals).
Well, you know what? I still listen to that band’s music today. And that doesn’t mean I condone femicide. I’ve never known this singer outside of his musical work, and no matter what he did or said later in his life, it won’t change the fact that I enjoy the songs he created, which remind me of a certain vibe from my youth.