Digikam for me.
My workflow, when disciplined is import images from card to server.
Fire up Digikam, tag all photos, then rip through rating all images with 1 star. Create a sub directory called filtered, move all 1 starred images to this folder, open Rawtherapee, process to jpg.
The final images don’t end up tagged or starred, but I can at least find the original raw in digikam and go from there.