I’m wondering if you have tried AgX (currently it’s in Master Branch) yet, and if it can change your opinion on this. Not so sure about shadows, as as I have more problems with highlights (eg white clothes in an otherwise darkish scene) and I’m finding that AgX is doing a better job than Sigmoid at taming them.
I cannot compare with the commercial softwares: I was Linux-based before I started raw processing, started with RT and moved to dt.
The reason for my move from RT to dt, personally, was I found it generally a little easier, the documentation easier to understand, and the initial starting point (especially after sigmoid arrived) closer to my preference, which equals less work :).
I don’t know how it is now, but I found local corrections incomprehensible in RT, whereas masking in dt, both drawn and parametric, is much more approachable for the “non-technical” photographer.
The only thing I miss from RT is the LAB tools, which I preferred to Colour Zones/Equaliser. It just happened to work better for me.
In the end, I think it is all “what works for you” and only the individual can try and decide. I doubt if one package gives inherently better/worse results than another, and I am certainly not qualified to even speculate on that one. Maybe it could be nice, but I doubt that the work that I do would benefit that much from AI masking. I’m not changing skies, backgrounds, etc: just maybe applying different instances of (eg) Colour-Balance-RGB to a figure and to their backgound. drawn mask and feathering works wonders. But… maybe not enough wonders for a model with wispy hair against a backdrop for people that do that stuff.
It’s like, given the camera I use (Sony a7m4), any problems with the pictures have to be mine, not the camera’s. For post-processing, same but times a hundred!